The couple, together
Answer the questions as a pair and turn your own references, routines and proposal story into the music for the room.
First Dance
Your wedding deserves a first dance song written from your story.
Answer a few questions about the two of you, from the place you met to the phrase they always say. We turn those details into an original, studio-quality song for your wedding reception, then send the finished track to your inbox.
Write Our First Dance
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Preview: a real song we made for another family.
AcousticFor Eleanor · Wife
Romantic · Male vocal
0:003:39
Why a song can make the first dance yours
The first dance arrives after the speeches, when the room turns towards you and every table watches what happens next. Couples often choose a song they already know, search through wedding playlists, or use the track that happens to be popular that summer. It may be beautiful, but it cannot mention the takeaway eaten on your first date, the dog who brought you together, or the promise you made in the kitchen at midnight. A song built from your answers gives those private details somewhere to live while you dance in front of everyone.
Flowers fade, the cake is eaten, and the printed order of service ends up in a drawer. The recording stays with the wedding itself. You can play it while getting ready, send it to family who could not attend, or return to it on an anniversary when the venue has long been cleared away. Most importantly, it gives the two of you words for the parts of your relationship that do not fit neatly into vows: the bad singing in the car, the familiar routines, and the reason this person is the one you chose.
Built from your relationship
The lyrics come from your answers: how you met, what you call each other, the ordinary habits that make the relationship recognisable.
Made for the reception
Choose a mood and vocal style that suits the room, from a quiet acoustic sway to a bright, upbeat number for a packed dance floor.
Read it before recording
The lyrics are shown to you first, so you can check every name, detail and line before the finished track is produced.
Ready for the big day
Standard delivery is within 24 hours. Choose Rush Delivery at checkout when the rehearsal is tomorrow or the reception is already close.
For the two of you
One track is written about one couple from one set of answers. It gives your first dance details that a general wedding playlist cannot.
Keep it after the wedding
Play it from the private page, share it with family, and download the full-quality track for personal use on anniversaries to come.
How it works
Three steps, about three minutes
You don’t need to be a writer. You just need to know them.
Tell us about the couple
Take a guided quiz in about three minutes. Share how you met, the wedding plans, the memory you want included, and what you want to say.
Choose your wedding sound
Pick a genre, mood, vocal style and language. Choose something that fits the couple rather than forcing your story into a standard wedding ballad.
Approve the lyrics, then dance
Read the words before production and request changes if needed. We then create the finished three-to-four-minute track and email it to you.
Choose the sound for your first dance
Select the style that belongs in your reception room, from a stripped-back slow dance to a lively track that brings the rest of the guests onto the floor.
Hear what your moment could sound like.
Three real wedding songs written for couples to play during their first dance.
AcousticFor Eleanor · Wife
Romantic · Male vocal
0:003:39
R&BFor André · Husband
Romantic · Female vocal
0:003:42
CountryFor Hattie · Wife
Romantic · Male vocal
0:002:56
Who is sending the wedding song
Write it together, keep it as a surprise, or give the couple a track from someone who knows exactly how they found each other.
A song from one partner
Keep it hidden until the reception, then let the lyrics say what was difficult to fit into the vows.
A maid of honour or best man
Give the newlyweds something more personal than a bottle or a framed print, built from the stories you heard first-hand.
A parent of the bride or groom
Write about the child you watched grow up and the person they now come home to.
A second wedding
Mark a new chapter with a song about the life you are choosing now, whether the ceremony is large or held with only close family.
An elopement or small ceremony
Give a private wedding its own music, even when there is no band, DJ or reception crowd to choose it for you.
What couples said after hearing their song
“I'll admit, I was pretty skeptical at first, but this turned out to be the best gift I've ever given my wife. You truly won't be disappointed!”
“They took the simple words and memories I shared and turned them into a beautiful song. I was in tears within seconds of hearing it. I honestly couldn't have asked for anything better.”
“I had this song created for my husband's birthday. The song they created is so beautiful. I even played it for my friend, and she actually cried. That's how special it is.”
Everything you need for the first dance
Every order includes a produced song of roughly three to four minutes, the written lyrics, a private play-and-share page, unlimited revisions, email delivery and a full-quality download for personal use.
- An original song written from your answers
- Studio-quality production in your chosen genre
- Fast delivery, with an instant option at checkout
- Unlimited revisions until you're happy
- Full download, yours to keep forever
- Your choice of genre — country, rock, folk, blues, soul, reggae, rap and more
- Male or female lead vocal to match the mood
- Lyrics you can preview and approve before production
- A shareable link for family who want to hear it
- Personal-use rights — play it at the party, post it, keep it
Questions, answered
How do I get a custom first dance song for my wedding?
Start with the guided quiz and tell us about your relationship, wedding and the details you want in the lyrics. You then choose the genre, mood and vocal style, review the words, and receive the produced track by email within 24 hours as standard.
Can the song mention our proposal, venue or first date?
Yes, the lyrics can include your proposal, venue, first date and any other details you provide. Specific answers lead to stronger lines, so mention the takeaway order, railway station, rainy walk or family phrase that guests would recognise.
Can we use it during the actual first dance?
Yes, you can play the finished track at the reception through the venue sound system, DJ setup or a phone and speaker. Send the audio file or private page to whoever is handling music, and check the venue equipment before the wedding day.
Will the song fit the length of our first dance?
The produced track is roughly three to four minutes, which suits a full first dance for most couples. If your choreographer or venue needs a particular timing, include that detail in your answers so it can guide the writing and production.
Can we hear the wedding song lyrics before production?
Yes, the lyrics are shown before the song is produced. Read through every line, check names and wedding details, and request changes before recording begins. That gives you a chance to make the words sound like the two of you.
What happens if we do not like part of the song?
Unlimited revisions are included for 30 days from delivery. Ask for a lyric, mood, vocal or other change and we will make it as many times as needed; if those changes are not made within that window, you receive a full refund.
Can we order a song for an upcoming wedding at short notice?
Yes, standard delivery is within 24 hours, and Rush Delivery at checkout brings it instantly. That gives you an option for a late decision, a rehearsal surprise or a wedding where the playlist has not yet been settled.
Can we play the song again after the wedding?
Yes, the private page lets you play and share it, and you receive a full-quality download for personal use. Keep it for anniversaries, send it to guests, or use it when you want to return to the words from the reception.
Give the first dance its own song
Tell us how you met, what you call each other and what this wedding means. We will turn those answers into the track waiting for your first dance.
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